LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME
EPISODE #5: Lucky girl syndrome
In this episode, Leah talks about the new trend called Lucky Girl Syndrome. She discusses all of the following:
06:53 What is Lucky Girl Syndrome
02:18 The TikTok trend called Lucky Girl Syndrome
03:53 Why positive/abundance mindset is everything
12:47 Delusional wellness
17:09 What the law of assumption is
17:31 What law of attraction is
18:43 Leah's thoughts on luck and hard work
Affirmations:
Universe, show me how good it gets
I'm so lucky everything works out for me
If there is a will there is a way
Rome wasn't built in a day
Text to my friend: "The magic is everywhere, and we can either live in a world where everything is spectacular, there are no coincidences, and we see rainbows, and shooting stars, fall in love, dream, and manifest the pictures in our imagination. Or we can live in a world where everything is purposeless, falling apart, black and white, glass half empty, and blame. Choose the magic!"
Then Leah provides guidance to a 3/5 Emotional Projector on direction in her business and a 6/2 Generator on strengths, confidence, and manifestation.
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EPISODE TRANSCRIPT
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Hello, and welcome back to another episode of the design of you, the podcast. I'm really excited for today's episode because we're going to be talking about the lucky girl syndrome. But before I get into the episode, I, of course, just want to give you guys some life updates and just let you in on all the things kind of happening in my world.
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So first and foremost. It has been an absolute crazy week. I'm recording this just a few days after my last episode. So you guys are going to hear this two weeks from when I'm actually recording it, but I cannot get over just the amount of craziness and in just success that I've really felt this past week and a half since I was featured on the Lady Gang.
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So those of you that don't know, I was featured on a major podcast called the Lady Gang. They have 175 million downloads. And man, my business has just been so busy and it's been really amazing. And I'm so sorry if I have not replied to a DM from you or an email, because I am truly just trying to keep my head above water and respond to things as quick as possible.
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But thank you so much for all the love. And if you're new here, I'm excited to bring you along along my journey with spirituality, han design and wellness. And. I do want to let you guys know that there are going to be a lot of episodes coming around specific han design topics, and I can't wait for it, and I was planning to do that for this second episode of the year, but I Really, I wanted to just talk about the lucky girl syndrome because I'm seeing it everywhere.
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And it's just something that has been showing up in my life. And actually even before the lucky girl syndrome was sort of coined on the internet, it was something that was sent to me months and months ago, maybe spring or smer, I had seen a video. And, or someone had sent me a TikTok that was about this girl.
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And of course I can't find this TikTok. I've looked and it's nowhere in my, in my folder. , I don't know. I feel every time I have to go find a TikTok, it's , it's just gone. So, , and I typed in lucky girl syndrome, but I don't think this was even coined when I originally saw this video. So. I, there was this video that was sent to me earlier in 2022 and it was basically this girl talking about someone that she knew in life who always approached situations with this sort of mindset that everything's going to work out for her.
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And she said that this girl literally lived the best life. they would go out and I don't even remember the examples, but this is how I. And if you're listening and you created that video, or if you know, if you know what I'm talking about, feel free to DM it to me, but it was that she knew someone who had this sort of lucky girl syndrome where they would go out and, you know, she'd say, we're going to have the best night ever and they would, or she would go into, we're going to, you know, go to this thing and it's going to be the greatest thing ever.
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And so the mindset was kind of , I deserve, you know, Great things. And I believe in great things happening to me. And so therefore it will, and it was these two girls. And she was describing that this is that this girl just had, you know, one of the coolest lives and, and that they wanted to be more that.
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Now this was sent to me because I quote unquote do this and I love to see that because I thought that it was a beautiful representation of the 12 laws of the universe, which I would love to do an episode on each of those at some point, but it was just a really sort of cool video around mindset. And shortly after that, there was a video that I saw around someone who said that this affirmation changed their life where they were saying.
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Universe, show me how good it gets. And this girl went on to say that she has been saying this affirmation. And it has literally transformed her entire life. I loved this one so much so that I actually even created a background for this, which I believe is in the highlights on my Instagram, The Design of You.
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So if you go there, you can find a little cute sunset with this quote on there and use it as your background on your phone. And I was doing that for a while this past year. I should have mentioned that in my Manifestation podcast. So the idea is that you have this sort of mindset and now this idea has really taken over TikTok by a storm.
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If you're not on the Tiki Talks, I'll tell you. Exactly what I mean by this. So there was this other video that was posted where these two girls, different two girls, I think they were sitting in a car eating noodles and they were talking about this affirmation, which is I'm so lucky. Everything works out for me.
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And how literally their entire life has changed. And then there's been stitches of this video and other girls coming on and guys saying, I said this all day. I'm so lucky. Everything works out for me and I've had the best day ever. I think one of the examples I saw was a couple and. They were saying it to each other kind of as a fun thing.
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Well, you know, we're so lucky everything works out for us. And, you know, she was saying how she looks at her husband and she's , well, you're so lucky everything works out for you. And he was , well, you're so light. And so they kind of did this back and forth thing and they ended up having these incredible moments transpire.
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And I really loved it. And I actually spoke about this on Instagram when I, , had shared about the podcast that I was featured in because. I have been increasingly, I've been increasingly told that I have this lucky girl syndrome for a lot of reasons. I do believe that. And for a lot of reasons, I also want to tell you guys that it's not always luck.
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So let's dive into it.
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The idea around lucky girl syndrome is that every single day you asse that you deserve something great. You deserve Anything that you desire and that the universe comes through and has your back. This is really not a new idea. This is very honestly things that people have been following for years and years.
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And I am so excited that this is becoming more and more apparent in social media and in more people's lives, because I think that we have been living in such a world where People do not believe in great things and I am someone that 100 percent believes in miracles and magic and rainbows and butterflies.
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I see the world in screaming color and I know other people see it in black and white and I believe that my life is incredible because of my Desire to have wonderful things. I really, really do even so much. So I was texting a friend not too long ago about something, and I'm actually going to read what I shared with her because she was telling me about how, she had just gotten engaged synchronicity around.
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The day that she got engaged where her dad had left her a voicemail several years before that saying how he was so sorry that you went through this horrible breakup and that you were, that she was going to find someone and five years later to the exact day she was proposed to. And I love stories that so much.
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And I shared with her, I said, the universe really does as a weird way of making things come full circle. And. There are never coincidences. I do not believe in coincidences at all. And she had said that, you know, things this really make me believe in magic. It's a million little stars coming together.
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And I wrote back to her. I said, the magic is everywhere. And we can either live in a world where everything is spectacular. There are no coincidences. And we see rainbows shooting stars, fall in love, dream, and manifest the pictures in our imagination. Or we can live in a world where everything is purposeless, falling apart, black and white glass, half empty and blame always choose the magic.
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And she said, Oh my gosh, I'm screenshotting this, this, this text and saving it forever. And I said, thank you so much for pulling that out of me. That was my friend, Sarah, by the way, if you're listening, Sarah shout out. , but it's really true that there is two mindsets. I mean, there's obviously multiple mindsets you can have in the world, but you can either have one where.
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You're a cynic and you were skeptical and you think that things don't happen to you and that you don't believe in God and, and I mean, okay, maybe that's a bad example because you don't have to believe in a God to believe in magic, but you have to believe in something. And so I am always going to be on the road of let's, let's dream bigger.
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Let's, let's go beyond our wildest dreams. And so therefore this mindset has, I think, really helped me. Manifest and create the life that I currently have because there is no part of my mind that Doesn't think that I don't deserve the things that I truly want. My mom and grandma both say this all the time.
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If there is a will, there's a way. And my defined ego slash heart center in han design absolutely loves this. Oh, and those of you that don't know, if you have a defined ego or heart, if you look up your chart on my website, it's the design of you. com slash get dash your chart. You can type in your birth information.
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For free and your chart will be pulled up and if you have the really tiny, small, the smallest sort of shape within the little body graph, this is that, that's a center and that small one, if it's colored and on my site, it will be a gold color. If that's colored in, that means you have a defined ego.
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Sometimes this is called the heart center. So a defined heart. And if it's white, you have an undefined heart. Most people, around 70 percent of the population, has an undefined or open heart. And around 30 percent has a defined heart. So With this one being defined, a lot of times it's , I have the will for this and I have the, you know, it, you, everything we think about ego, which, you know, isn't always a negative thing to have an ego.
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it's okay to be selfish in life and go after things that you desire. , obviously when it's hurting other people, there's, there's obviously caveats to these things, but I having that defined sort of heart, I love this quote around there's a, if there's a will, there's a way, because this area is filled with so much willpower in my body.
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I really do think that if you believe that something's going to happen for you, it will. When I was growing up, I, I didn't come from a lot of money. I really didn't. I had divorced, or I should say I have, I have divorced parents and my dad worked his butt off my entire life and could barely save a penny.
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And my mom, same sort of thing. She just never had money either. And so I just kind of, Really struggled in that department growing up and, you know, the work that I've done around money is that that's had an effect on my mindset, but now it's a lot of deconditioning work with that area of my life.
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And, you know, the thing is, though, I don't really to harp on the story around, you know, I come from this, you know, not an amazing background and, you know, all these sort of things. But I think that so much of that bleeds into my actual story because. , no point in my life have I ever thought that I don't deserve the things that I have.
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, I think I've always been someone that wanted the next thing, the bigger thing, and , wanted to create a life of my dreams, even though I didn't come from that. You know, a lot of this is called delusional well, delusional wellness or delusional reality. And I think sometimes it's okay to be a little delusional, , because I think that again, when we manifest things, when I talked about this in the last episode, is that You really have to align your frequency to what it is that you desire.
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And so a perfect example of this is when I was going away to college, I was going, I went to Miami university of Ohio, which is a public IV, which is basically just a fancy word for an expensive public school. And it's, it's this beautiful university. I truly, truly love my college experience. I, I could cry thinking about it.
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I loved college so much. But it was a challenge for me at first, because I remember when I decided that I wanted to go there, it was , well, how am I going to afford this? You know, my parents weren't going to be able to afford college for me. And so I really had to figure out all the ways. And I remember my mom saying to me, if there's a will, there's a way.
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And I've always kind of hung on to that quote, because, you know, something they don't teach you is the whole FAFSA process and student loans and all of that. So I really had to kind of figure all of that out. With, you know, my parents alongside with me is specifically my dad kind of helping me through this process.
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He didn't know either. And so we were kind of learning along the way, but I thought I will go away to college. I deserve to go there and that's what I want. And. We're going to work at it. And again, work is the one thing that I'm going to kind of say here, and I don't mean work as in kill yourself because I don't think that the future we're moving into is around killing yourself for the things that you want, hustling and bustling, which I've done a lot of in my life and it's gotten me places, but it's usually when you hustle and you work and kill yourself for something, it's usually Not something that's going to last because you are really, you're coming from it with a scarcity sort of mindset at the other end.
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And when things are meant to be, they sort of flow. And I got, this could be a really long conversation around feminist and, , feminism and masculine energy, but we're not going to go there today. What we're going to talk about is the fact that. You know, I had to do things. I had to learn things to get to where I was and I did work very hard for a lot and some of it I didn't work that hard for some of it.
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I just needed to know someone or talk to another person and have a door open for me. And so I think that the idea of the lucky girl syndrome is saying that everything is going to work out if there's a will, there's a way, if the universe has presented this in front of me, it's something that I can have to, you can go on the internet and anyone that you see that's famous and doing something that you desire, I hope that, you know, that you deserve that and you're going to have that.
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I think that where I get so tripped up with people is when people will. Want something and then they'll say, well, I'm, I'm never going to afford that or good for them for that vacation. And they do that. And I'm, I literally always want to look at people when they kind of have those moments and say, you, you will never have that with that mindset.
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You literally won't , you're never going to have that with just even your lack of even thinking that you won't , you're kind of already, you've already decided for yourself that that's not something that you're. capable of. And, you know, not all of us are capable for everything, you know, specifically, , you know, I don't look at a pro athlete and say , Oh my gosh, , I want to be that.
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I usually would look at a pro athlete and be , that's not something I'd ever want to do. And that's not something I ever will do, you know, obvious for obvious other reasons too. But maybe if I was younger and had that mindset, maybe if I changed my mindset now, and that was something I truly desired, I really believe that I could become anything that I wanted to.
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And so that's the idea of lucky girl syndrome. Oh my God, wait, this is so funny. I just got a text from some, , I dunno, some promotional thing that I must have signed my nber up in and it says Rome wasn't built in a day. And I just think that's funny because, you know, I think if you believe in something that you're going to have, it's not going to happen tomorrow.
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It's going to take time and effort and energy put towards that. You know, again, everything is going to work out for you if you believe in that. And if you continue to align your frequency, use the laws of the universe. Specifically, again, the law of assption, which the law of assption is basically saying that when we asse what we want will happen in order to manifest our reality.
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And so this is pretty much just the lucky girl syndrome right on the head. And the sort of quote around the law of assption is that , if I asse success. And I persist that assption over and over. I will not fail. And law of attraction is aligning your frequency to the thing that you desire. And every day showing up within that and knowing it's going to happen for you.
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You know, that's why a lot of people recommend, you know, making your bed in the morning if you want to be successful, or if you, you know, want to become this boss bitch and every day, you know, become a CEO. It's . You know, even if you're working at home, , you know, put on the thing that makes you feel that way, put on your.
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I don't know your blazer and your heels and I'm giving the most generic example of what a boss bitch is, but , you know what I mean? align your every day with whatever it is that that sort of looks and feels , and that's how you can align your frequency to things that you want. So, you know, my caveat to the law of assption is that my caveat to the Lucky girl syndrome is that I don't always think that it's luck and I do believe in luck.
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I definitely do, but I also believe that it does require a mindset shift and it does require you to get really clear on your desires and really get clear on your energy. Again, you know, Piggybacking off of last week's episode, if you are using your han design, you're going to automatically be in such a higher frequency aligned place that the things that you desire are going to come to you really quickly.
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So lucky girl syndrome can be luck, but it can also be working towards the life that you want. And when I say work again, I don't mean kill yourself over things. I mean, Literally every day, it requires energy to every single day, show up for the things that you want in life every single day to show up to the things that you desire every single day to stare at your vision board every single day to say what you're working towards, right?
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, for example, in my business, I know that I, I'm not going to give away all my plans, but I know exactly. I have a very clear vision of where I want my business to go and what's going to happen in the next two years. And I'm really excited. And I, I don't know how it's going to happen, but I, I know, I know what I'm working toward.
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And so every single day I think about that, I think about where I want to go. And I think about what I want this to look and you know, what different feelings I want to have. And I think of nbers and I think of, I really, every single day, imagine this. And that requires work for me to show up to my business, you know, it's not that I'm saying , you know, I want to be a millionaire and I want to you know, coach people.
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I'm really saying this is how I'm going to do it. This is, you know, the type of person I want to work for work with. This is the exact way that I want to You know, receive a pun, I, I think about everything and every day I visit that every single day. It doesn't, it's not a lot of energy, but every day I sit there and go, this is the life I want.
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I'm as far into my manifestation practices as looking at what I want in a future home. I'm, I'm not at a place right now where I'm going to be building a home at some point, but I think about that every day. I think about the home that I'm going to have someday. Every single day. I do. And I think that if you are courageous and dedicated to having the life that you desire, and you affirm that every day by telling yourself that you are courageous So lucky and that everything is going to work out for you.
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It's going to shift your mindset into a positive place. And it's going to help you start to attract things that do work out for you. And, you know, those things may have already been there without you noticing. But I think when you start to say, I am so lucky and things work out, you're going to notice that things are working out.
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Right. Here's a great example. So right now, I want you to look around and I want you to. So wherever you are, if you're driving, you can even do this, but I want you to look around you and I want you to count how many things in front of you are green. I'll give you a few minutes to do this.
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You can keep that nber to yourself or say it out loud. For me specifically, I saw six things in my office that were the color green. Okay. Now I want you to tell me how many things that you saw were red. I'm not telling you to look, I'm just telling you to tell me, did you notice how many things were red?
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No, you didn't because you weren't looking for red, you were looking for green. So, this is kind of how the lucky girl syndrome works. If you were looking for the things that work out for you and looking for the luck and the magic and the, you know, the rainbows and the glass half full and all of the amazing things in your life, Guess what?
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You're going to see them. But when you're focused on the negative and the lack and the scarcity and all of the things that you don't have, it's going to stay that way. You're not going to have the things that you want. You're not going to have the things that you desire. And that's sort of how lucky girl syndrome works.
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So this is going to be a quick episode because I just want to wrap it up by saying that you guys are lucky and you guys are going to create the life that you desire. so much for being here. And. Continue to say to yourself, I am so lucky. Everything works out for me and see how that transforms it and see what happens when you show up to your desires every day.
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And if you would some support in this area, I am opening up, or if you would some support in this area, I have opened up the wait list to my new program called the method, which is a one on one deep program where I will be working with you to understand your han design. We're going to get deep into all of the layers of your chart.
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And what I mean by all of the layers, this program is going to go over intentions. We're going to get close to your intuition. We're going to uncover your gifts. We're going to dive into your purpose. We're going to decondition. We're going to get rid of all of the crap and that negative mindset that we hold onto because we've carried it for way too long from other people.
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We're going to talk about your relationships. We're going to get you into alignment. We're going to work on nourishing your body, creating the right environment for yourself. I'm going to help you with the type of movement that works best for you, and we're going to integrate everything in your han design into your life so that you can manifest.
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The desires that you want and the things that you, you're, so you can, so you can manifest your dream life and get closer to living on purpose and living this life that you came here to live. I don't believe in YOLO because we, we do live so many lifetimes truly. But I don't believe in YOLO because I know that we live many lifetimes, but I believe that we should make the best of our time here and we should work through these hurdles because That's a part of sort of our karmic purpose is to get to the next phase, deal with our karma and then move forward.
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And so we may as well enjoy the ride while we're here. And so that's what I'm going to help you guys with. So definitely join the wait list that will be in the bio. And, , I can't wait to open up the program and work with more of you. All right, have the best day. And again, you are so lucky. Everything works out for you.
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Stay tuned for the. Reading portion of the show where I go through and read people's charts live. All right. See you there.
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All right. Welcome to the Reader portion of the show. I am Diving into Kienda, I'm so sorry if I said that wrong. It's spelled K I E N D A So Kienda, she said that she is looking for guidance on direction for her business. She said, I know I want to serve as a guide slash mentor, but I have so many experiences in life.
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I don't know where to focus. And I pulled up her chart. She is a three, five emotional projector with split definition born under gate 30, which is the incarnation cross of the right angle cross of contagion. And she's got an open head center, an undefined identity center, undefined ego center, an undefined sacral and a defined Ajna throat, spleen, root and solar plexus.
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Okay. So I love this and I know that you, Keanda, you said that you are a. So the first thing that I just want you to know about yourself is that you are actually meant to share your experiences. So your profile is a three, five, and this three part of your profile is all about experiential learning and wisdom.
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So basically your entire life is going to feel you're constantly kind of on this rollercoaster of, You know, let me try this and then let me learn from my mistakes and then I'll try this out and maybe I'll fail, but then I'm going to learn and I'm going to pivot and you're going to do this a lot in life where you're going to learn by experience and, and, you know, this is not going to come to a surprise as you, I think you're really going to enjoy the, your experiences and experiential learning is just a cornerstone of who you are, you're designed to, you.
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To take the things that you've been through and help others. The second part of your profile, this, this five is all about serving other, being of service to people. And so really when I see these two come together, it's literally serving the world through the experiences that you've had. So I know that you said, I don't, you said on here that, , you have so many experiences that you don't know where to focus.
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And you know, my advice would be to kind of embody all of your experiences. And, and to just teach people from that. And so, you know, it's hard to know specifically what exactly you're referring to, but I love that you also mentioned that you want to be in a, you want to be a guide and a mentor because as a projector, you're such a natural guide that that's going to be something that comes to you.
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Without trying and specifically, the people that continue to invite you in and recognize you as someone who can help them. I think you're really going to step more and more into your purpose. So as far as the direction in your business goes, I would continue to talk about your experiences. I would continue to talk about how you want to help people through the specific experiences that you have, even if they kind of seem all over the place, kind of package them into this beautiful.
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Sort of this gift, and then talk about how you're going to guide others and mentor them. You know, I think it would be really great on your site to maybe have, and maybe you already have this, but a submission form or an application or something of that nature, because when someone's really inviting you in and recognizing you, I think that that really allows your, your kind of guidance to land as a projector.
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So I would absolutely focus in on that. I think that that's going to take your business to the next level. Some other things is that you do really well in collaboration. So I would. Definitely try to do work that you are working with people where you're connecting with others, even if you're not directly connecting with people, it could be simply, you know, going out in public and working in, you know, coworking, coffee shops, busy areas, because I think you being around others is going to help that energy really flow with anything you definitely want to give yourself some time to sleep on it.
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So any major directions that you take in life, Definitely give you, give yourself the chance to, you know, feel into it, sleep on it, give yourself time. You know, you're not really meant to make decisions in the moment here, make decisions through time. And then especially as you're sort of reworking or figuring out the direction of your business, again, lean on your experiences.
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, you know, I can tell that you, you see the potential in things and you've got this part of your Your gifts that just tells me that you have this great and wide imagination. I'm sure you're full of ideas. This open head is giving you tons of different places to go. And, and, you know, a couple tips here is just every single day, why don't you just focus on two or three things to get done and know that that's going to be the best thing that you can do and honor your desire for rest along the way.
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, especially as you're kind of crafting new offers, there's also this part of you that, you know, when you speak, it's important that again, it's invited in, you've got that genius to freak channel, which is a beautiful channel to have, because it tells me that you're incredibly innovative and you're just light years ahead of people around you.
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And that can be really great as a guide and a mentor. But again, when it's invited in rather than. Just, you know, project it onto someone else. It really lands. Take note of that and continue to see who's recognizing you and inviting you into offering your guidance. And so that is the advice that I'm going to leave you with.
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I hope that helps. And thank you so much, so much for submitting. Okay, let's move on to someone else. All right. So this next one is from Amber and Amber said that she would guidance on where my strengths and confidence can come from. Would love to know any spirituality connections in my chart as I feel there are things within me but lack the confidence to claim them, how I can best manifest things in my life.
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And one time you made a comment on one of my centers you d, can't recall which one would just appreciate your. on my chart overall. I was studying through a quote unquote han HD school and the teacher bailed out with my money. And so any information while I try to save is greatly appreciated.
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Thank you in advance for your time. I'm so sorry you had that experience with a teacher bailing out on you. That's. That's really not cool. And if you want to learn again, whenever the time and resources are available to you, I would love to mentor you within my mentorship program. , and just to give you a quick little rundown on what that is, it's a one on one program where.
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You get four sessions with me and then you get 12 modules. Actually, I think there's 13 modules now to learn han design and, , you get Boxer access to me to ask one on one questions. And then there's also a Facebook group officially part of the program now. So all of the people I've mentored are all in there and.
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, can connect that way, but, , okay, so let's look at your chart. I must have done a reading with you because you said I'm one time mentioned something. Your name does look familiar, but I, I do talk to so many people, so I can't remember. , and you know what I probably told you what I d is the fact that you have a defined identity and a defined ego because I.
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Love that energy a lot in people, because I think that, , especially as it comes to directions and where I'm going and confidence, it actually is an area where I see people can build confidence from, and you know, if you're listening, you don't have a defined ego or defined identity. It doesn't mean that you don't have confidence and, and that, you know, these are, , meets a bad thing.
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If those are undefined, it's definitely not by any means. It just means that you are very wise in these areas and you've learned lessons and you, maybe there's been conditioning and that you've, You know, gone through and that now you're, you know, You have the most amazing confidence and things. So, but for Amber specifically, she's got this defined.
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Amber, when you look at your chart, there's definitely a lot of areas you can look at strengths and confidence. First and foremost with when it comes to strengths, I would focus specifically on your channels in your chart, Amber. And those listening. So she basically has, basically, she does have an undefined head center and an undefined solar plexus and everything else is defined.
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And she's got tons of channels. Amber. I mean, if you're listening to this, you've got tons of strong strengths and gifts. , we're really going to just dive into everything, but I mean, there's a lot of definition here. There's a lot of, there's a lot to lean on that's consistent in you. So I just want you to receive that first and foremost, but I'm going to start with your centers.
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So first and foremost, I see that you've got a defined. So first and foremost, I see that you've got a defined Ajna or defined mind. And the gift of having a defined mind is that you have a very reliable mind that processes in a consistent way. So your mind's strong, and when you think about things and interpret information and process thoughts, you have a consistent way of doing that.
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And when you're in alignment, your mind really helps you solve problems, and can help you solve problems not only for yourself, but other people. And, you know, this isn't the place that you should make decisions, but you've got a consistent mind that You can always rely on. It's not, you're not going to change your mind once you make it up.
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So that's a gift in itself. You know, you also have a defined throat, which tells me that you have a very consistent way of expressing yourself through your voice and your voice is impactful. Your words hold a lot of significance and you're really gifted at expressing yourself and sharing your essence and you communicate in a very consistent way and it uplifts the world around you when you're expressing yourself.
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And You know, you may be very wise about communication and you feel really connected to your voice. So that's a gift. Then you've got this defined identity center, which I mentioned, and this just means you have a strong sense of direction and who you are, you express yourself consistently, and you know, you really designed to be firmly rooted in who you are.
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And I probably told you that I loved that about your chart in tied with your, , define ego, which I'll talk about next, because it just means that. You express yourself authentically all the time and you have this trust in the path of life. And when you're in alignment, you continue to help other people find their direction and you inspire other people to be authentic to themselves.
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If you're feeling out of alignment, you're not sure where to go, this could feel you're out of touch with yourself and you know how you can get back into alignment is really, you know, trusting that strategy and authority. Within you, which is for you, it's going to be, you know, trusting your gut and responding to the things that that are showing up in life, not using your head to make decisions, which you may.
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You know, have a pull to do because of your, you know, strong mind, but the more and more that you do that and remind yourself of what makes you unique, you're going to get back on track and now going into this ego, you know, this is also a gift to have having a defined heart just means you've got an innate sense of self worth and motivation and You know, just from what you said, it may feel there's some out of alignment happening within the center because, you know, when you're out of alignment with your defined heart or also called the ego center, you may burn out from everything.
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, you may burn out from overachieving, you could place unrealistic expectations on how much will people, other people have to accomplish things and you may. You know, not feel worthy because other people aren't the same as you. And you know, just a reminder that you are someone who has this loyalty and this trustworthiness and the sense of commitment to what you have the will and the heart for.
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And you are someone who is meant to. Be tuned into what your heart wants and take the matters of your heart very seriously and ask for what you need. So it's such a gift to see this defined. It's relatively rare, as I mentioned earlier in this episode, but again, . You know, if you're out of alignment, getting into alignment is going to require the fact that you may be out of alignment here and tuning into what your heart wants and making promises from your heart and, you know, not letting people take advantage of your willpower and, you know, understanding that not everyone operates the same way that you do and, you know, stay strong and sort of what, what you desire.
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And, you know, you also have this defined sacral center, which is what makes you have this generator power. And, you know, Being a generator, the gift here is that you have a consistent energy fuel within your body. You have this energy to work, and so it's important that you reserve that energy towards things that light you up and that you love to do, and that bring you satisfaction because When you do that, you create the spill over of radiant, radiant energy that pours over everything and everyone, and it uplifts the world.
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So that is such a gift. It's a gift to, to be a generator. And again, if you're listening to any of these and you don't have these defined, there's also gifts in those too, but these are very consistent with an Amber. And I want her to know that. These are things that she can rely on. You've got this defined root center, which tells me that you have a, you basically have a consistent way of how you handle pressure and stress, and you're really naturally driven and ambitious.
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And, you know, it's really important for you to stay grounded and what you can achieve and. And be very wise about the way that you're working under pressure and you process things in a different way than others. Then you also have this really defined spleen. She's got, let's see, 1, of the 7 gates defined there.
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So there's lots of energy happening in your spleen. And this just tells me a very powerful, dependable, Instincts and you're designed with a strong intuition and you have this instinctual knowing and, you know, sometimes it can be fearful, but it's also, you know, this part of you that offers the world a sense of safety and protection through the sort of nature that comes through in this area.
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So those are all very consistent, amazing gifts and strengths that you do have just within those centers and leaning into your channels, which you've got so many as well. And then leading into your channels, the first one that I'm seeing is this channel of judgment, which is this 18 and 58 connection all the way down at the bottom.
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This one I to call the perfecting channel because it just means that you're gifted at perfecting the world around you because you have this part of you that's , Wanting to see the world in an, or naturally seeing the world in an upgraded way. And you're really gifted at spotting what needs correcting and, you know, it can show up as over perfecting and sometimes judgment, but it's also around improving and perfecting the world around you.
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And then I also see you've got so much tenacity, the channel of struggle, which I to call the channel of tenacity, which means you're a lover. Not a fighter, but you're going to fight for what you love. You're innately tenacious and you love a good challenge. You're gifted at empowering people to improve themselves through their struggles and to get closer to the purpose.
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So that's a gift I've seen the marketing channel, which tells me that you really have this strong sense of. What people need and you're just a natural sort of marketer and you're, you're gifted at making things more. You're gifted at making anything marketable. , you're kind of a genius at messaging and aligning people to what will improve their lives.
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And then I see this 57 to 20 channel, which is all about being spontaneous. You're really gifted at expressing yourself in the moment. And your intuition is directly connected to your voice. And it says what it's going to pick up on instinctually and spontaneously. And that's a gift as well. And then finally, you've got this 11 to 56 channel.
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Which connects your mind to your throat. And this one's all about being curious. This channel is all about being gifted at turning stories, stories into wisdom. And you're really full of a lot of ideas and you channel your curiosity by sharing stories with the world. And you're really good at picking up lessons and ideas and wisdom and inspiration from the world around you.
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So. You know, you've got all sorts of these gifts to lean on. And I want you to know that these are strengths. And of course, each of the gifts that we have, there are shadows that show up with these, but I'm, I want you to feel empowered in the fact that these are things that are within you when you're ready to step into your power.
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And the more and more that you make decisions by trusting your gut and. You know, responding to the things that show up in your life. I think the more and more you're going to see these gifts naturally start to show up because that is going to help you be in alignment and. You, the other thing you said is, you know, how can I manifest things in my life?
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And again, the more that you're making aligned decisions and trust that you deserve great things and that these are gifts that you are innately built with, you're going to have really great things in your life. So I hope that offered you some guidance and gave you some more confidence within yourself.
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And again, you're so lucky. Everything's going to work out for you. And I know that once you step into that, you are going to have it all. So that's going to be it for today. I'm just going to do those two, but again, please let me know what you guys think about this episode and, you know, please send me a DM or share about it.
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If it resonated with you, I love hearing from you guys. It makes me the happiest. So. Thank you, thank you, thank you all of my love into this year.
