New Paradigm and Human Design for Business with Kalei from Expanded Flow
EPISODE #33: New Paradigm & Human Design for Business with Kalei from Expanded Flow
In this episode, Leah brings on Kalei Correll of Expanded Flow to discuss all things new paradigm and HD for business. They discuss all of the following:
09:03 Kalei's story of listening to her body to leaving her corporate career
27:26 What is new paradigm?
29:01 What we're moving to in 2027 in terms of business structures, rave children, and authenticity
39:38 The difference between new paradigm and old paradigm
52:16 Integrating Human Design with your business
Leah, 5/1 Generator, and Kalei, 2/4 Sacral Generator, explore new paradigm and what that means for everyone. They discuss how using your profile, channels, and gates can help you live in alignment. With the shift coming in 2027, the pair explore how human design systems will be at the forefront of it all, especially when it comes to business. They discuss how understanding your human design type leads to success in business.
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EPISODE TRANSCRIPT
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Leah: Welcome back to another episode of The Design Of You. Today's a really fun episode With a really fun topic that I know a lot of you have lots of questions about, which is new paradigm and I have not really talked about new paradigm on my page or really anywhere. I feel like in depth. I know I've mentioned it a little bit in my other podcast episodes.
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Leah: And if you're listening right now and you're like, what in the world is new paradigm, we'll get into it. But essentially new paradigm is talking about kind of this like shift energetically that The entire world is moving into so in 2027 we're actually like about to move into this extensive paradigm where we're going to be dark consciousness is shifting and things are.
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Leah: Really just starting to change up in the world energetically. And, and that's already been happening. It actually kind of kicked off in 2020. We all know what happened then. But so today I bring on a dear friend of mine, who is Kaylee, who I have met in the human design space, she has expanded flow on Instagram, and I'm going to link all of her socials down below.
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Leah: And,, she also works with business and business and human design. So not only are we talking about new paradigm, but we're going to be talking about. Business and how to use human design in business and this new paradigm shift and how that is changing the way that we operate and run businesses in the world.
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Leah: This is a really good conversation. Probably one of those conversations that like I left being like, Oh my gosh, I could have talked to Kaylee forever. And she is a friend of mine. So no surprise there. But it's a really good one to tune into. I feel like it's a topic that is something new for everyone.
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Leah: Like we're talking about things that you don't see on Instagram. You don't hear. So this is just one that you will want to fully listen to as far as like life updates for me before we dive into the episode. So I'm currently in my office. I have,, I have two of my really good friends in town for my birthday.
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Leah: My birthday is actually this coming week, November 9th. And I. we're actually celebrating the week, weekend before, and that's because one of my other really good friends who lives out here in Newport with me, it's her birth, or her birthday was last week, and so we do this like combined birthday every year, and we're renting a yacht, and,, we have like friends coming on it, our friend's gonna DJ, it's gonna be so much fun.
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Leah: And I'm just excited because well, by the time this comes out, we will have already done that, but I'm just excited because I just love being with my good friends. It's very nourishing, but they're currently sitting here and they're currently sitting here. I'm laughing because they're, they're sitting here watching me record this.
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Leah: I told them, I was like, look, I have a couple of things to do for work. I am a business owner entrepreneur. Like I have to do work all the time. So I was like, I'm gonna record the intro of my podcast really quick. It won't take very long. And they're like, can we come on and say hello? And I was like, yes, you can.
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Leah: So I have my. I have my good friend Carol, my good friend Olivia, and Olivia is actually my cousin, and we are best friends and related, so that's really fun., the other thing is that we all three went to college together, but they're gonna come on and just say hi, and then I'm gonna have them tell you what their human design is.
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Leah: So, Olivia, tell everyone who you are and say hello. Hi, my name's Olivia Mancy.
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Olivia: Hi, my name's Olivia Mancy. I am a 1/3 sacral, wait, I said sacral. She's like, is that right? Like, what is it? Like, I'm a manifesting generator, so pretty much I, I have a gut feeling about everything and it's usually right. It's 99 percent always right. So yeah, we trust your gut.
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Olivia: Trust your gut.
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Leah: Yep. Yep. That's Olivia. , they are still learning a little bit more about their human design. Fun fact. I think a lot of people don't realize this about people in my life. It's like. So we were somewhere recently and someone asked and or like about his human design and he doesn't actually know a ton about it and but people assume that like just because I'm do human design all the time that everyone knows everything about their chart.
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Leah: That's any relation to me and that's not the case. So they're still learning. I do try to separate my work in my personal life. So I'm not always talking about human design to everyone, but so, and now I'm gonna invite on Kara. So Kara, you share what your human design is? Yes. Get a little bit closer.
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Kara: Hi everybody, I'm Kara and I am a 6/3 emotional manifesting generator.
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Kara: So also I'm a manifesting generator like Liv.
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Leah: Yeah. So all I, I think I've mentioned before in my podcast that literally all of my friends are generators are manifesting generators. And we've, I've got like, one projector friend, and then like, one manifestor friend, but everyone is a generator type.
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Leah: Which is no surprise because type attracts type, , and, or sacral attracts sacral, I feel like. Those are my besties watching me do my job, and I'm not going to do a super long intro today just because this is a really potent conversation and I feel like there's not much I can say that's just going to, you know, explain what we're about to talk about anyhow.
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Leah: So, let's just get into the content of today's episode with Kaylee. And you may or may not want to grab a pen and paper for this one, like last week's episode, because there's some just really good nuggets here. And I will be sharing on Instagram all sorts of new paradigm information as well, which I'm really excited to just start that conversation.
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Leah:, because not only that in human design mastery, which if you guys have been listening to my podcast or following anywhere, that is my human design training. I am teaching a bonus live call to all of my students on New paradigm here in the next month or so. And if you're looking for an update on human design mastery, I want you guys to click the link down below in the show notes.
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Leah: I am releasing human design mastery as a self paced course in the next few weeks and spoiler alert, there is going to be a really nice black Friday deal on joining that. So if you're looking to become a human design reader by 2024. Definitely get on the list below. So you're notified when it goes live.
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Leah: I'd love to have you, but we type into literally every single part of human design, all of the ins and outs and included in that is new paradigm. So if you like this conversation, you will absolutely, surely like human design mastery, and I also should mention that we also talk about human design and business in that.
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Leah: Of course as well. So without further ado, enjoy today's episode.
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Leah: Hi guys. I'm here with Kaylee from Expanded Flow. I'm just so happy to have her here today because Kaylee is one of my human design hype girls. Basically, we have a little, , group of human design lovers and readers. And we have this little group chat called human design hype squad and it's Kaylee and, and myself and,, some other prominent names on Instagram.
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Leah: And we all kind of get together every so often and just talk about human design and. So I'm so excited to bring her to you guys because she is truly so brilliant. We were just reviewing her chart and looking at her very wide split in her chart. She's got a defined head and a defined Ajna. And then she also has a defined root that's connected to her sacral.
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Leah: And so she's just completely like, she's a very unique generator. And if you're interested in her design, she's a 2/4 sacral generator. But again, she's got a big split within her chart. And I'm just so happy to have her here today because she is such a voice in new paradigm and business and energetics and human design.
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Leah: And so I think this episode is about to be really interesting. So Kaylee, go ahead and introduce yourself and tell us everything.
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Kalei: Hi, , I'm really happy to be here. I'm really happy that we get to exchange our juicy sacred life force together in conversation with your listeners today. And I hope that this conversation is really powerful, expansive, and empowering and I do best in response.
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Kalei: So really whatever you feel called to ask me first, I think that will feel supportive for me in terms of flowing.
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Leah: Yeah, so I would love for you to just share about first your story with human design, because I really do think you have an interesting, really beautiful story of how you got into human design and how much it's really helped you in your life.
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Leah: And you've had some massive shifts through starting to align with your energy. And so just tell us a little bit about your journey.
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Kalei: So human design came into my life in a really impactful way in the early 2021. At this time period in my life, I was still in my corporate career. I was working in finance for a tech company and my very defined route.
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Kalei: And three gate 54 activations were really motivating me to focus on climbing the corporate ladder. And with a lot of line two energy in my chart as well, I had learned through the public education system and through college that I was naturally quite gifted with numbers and accounting and finance specifically.
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Kalei: And so I built my career around finance and I was really focused on becoming one of the youngest female CFOs in the public sector and the company that I was working for at the time in 2021 was actually really supportive of that career endeavor and so they were rewarding me with all sorts of success.
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Kalei: Promotions, titles, all the things. And my dream at the time was quickly becoming a reality. But at the same time, I was starting to have this internal reckoning process of wait, I'm getting closer and closer to achieving this big goal that I've set my sights on. And I thought was going to bring me. This level of fulfillment and meaning and success.
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Kalei: And the closer that I get to it, the more that I'm actually feeling disconnected from myself, the more that my health is starting to suffer. And the more that I'm realizing that the titles high sums of money, the recognition, the accolades. aren't actually providing me with the quality of life that I'm looking for, with the meaning that I'm looking for.
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Kalei: However, I was still working full time and very much in that hamster wheel of the old paradigm we like to refer to it as. So I didn't really have the time or the space to really be Reflecting on what these internal realizations were, I didn't even really have the language that I have now at the time. I just could sense intuitively that something was off.
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Kalei: And so in early 2021, the company that I was working for, , presented me with the career opportunity of a lifetime. They wanted me to lead the company through an IPO on that was a huge opportunity for somebody of my age and really a once in a lifetime opportunity to really be in the right place at the right time to help take a company public.
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Kalei: It was going to be a huge undertaking from a project standpoint. I had really been working so hard and very long hours for a number of months, so I was. Feeling into like whether I could even physically handle it and whether it really aligned with this intuitive sense of where life might be calling me elsewhere.
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Kalei: And so I was trying to grapple with that, but I had a very condensed timeline to make a decision on and the project was presented to me on a Friday and I had the weekend to think about it. In response, before I knew my design, I had this very strong gut contraction. Like my body just was basically contracting in on itself.
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Kalei: It felt really tight, really constrictive. I was just. Meeting resistance in relationship to this decision. I didn't know what that meant. I didn't know what that feeling was like. My mind couldn't make logical sense of that. I didn't have the languaging that human design offers us. And so I used the weekend to turn it over to try to relax.
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Kalei: I remember I actually was like, Driving to dinner on that Friday evening in that gut contraction was so strong that I thought I might have to pull over to the side of the road, just to, like, help center my energy, but in any case, I ended up having conversations with friends and family over the course of the weekend.
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Kalei: And beyond the opportunity, there was a, you know, a lot of income opportunity that was being offered alongside of it. And so through these conversations, we basically came to this collective, logical, rational conclusion. That, hey, maybe it made sense for me to pursue this project. And then after the project wraps up, maybe then I'll have the time and the space to think about really what I want to be doing.
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Kalei: So I said yes to this project on a Monday against that gut intuition, that gut no. And then the next workout that I did A day or two later ended up triggering a onset of very serious health complications. And what I didn't know at the time is that my immune system had actually become severely compromised as a result of driving myself really hard in this corporate career over a period of a decade, and really not ever stopping to look behind me to.
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Kalei: to pause and take rest. And so grappling with severe illness then meant that I was actually forced out on medical leave, no longer able to participate in the project anyways. And while I was on, , bed rest for a number of weeks, this is when human design really entered the chat, really entered my life in a way.
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Kalei: Where I was able to pay attention and I remember the first aspect that I learned about myself was that I was a generator with sacred authority that my decision maker is my gut and that it responds through this expansive. excitement, this energizing pull towards something. And that a no is that contraction that I was describing earlier.
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Kalei: And that is what I am meant to be relying on for decisions and not my mind. And so even though it was a hard lesson to learn, I'm very grateful for the experience and the opportunity that afforded me through having this space and time to really be in my own energy to really heal and clarify why I'm here, what I'm passionate about, how that translates into a life path, a career path that feels more purposeful and meaningful, and then starting to take aligned action in that direction.
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Kalei: That's like the gift of a lifetime really is to have that severe course correction. And so if your listeners are listening and they're resonating with having this experience of being in a career or starting a business and starting to take a lot of action in that direction, having almost a laser like focus, putting a lot of your energy.
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Kalei: Discipline, perseverance, and commitment into something that the further you move down that track, it starts to feel like it's not giving back to you in the way that you expected it to. Trust that intuition, and human design then becomes this very beautiful resource for re centering, re grounding yourself, and giving insight into what those natural gifts and skills are.
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Kalei: Then the work that I do with the clients that I do is figuring out how those translate into a path of monetization for yourself, essentially, so that you can live as yourself and be resourced for that and be well resourced for that, because I truly believe that whether you want to call it God, Source, Universe, that power, that consciousness rewards us For living in alignment or working in alignment for being in service to the greater whole through our alignment.
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Kalei: , so it's really a blessing to me that this is the work that I get to do now.
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Leah: It’s such a really, I mean, of course, lots of hardship had happened in there, but such a beautiful way of just really describing your experience with human design, really leading you back to yourself through. It's funny because I have such a similar story where it's like.
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Leah: You didn't know about human design, but you fell out of alignment slightly and then there was something that happened that really triggered you to need to get into alignment and you find human design and then you realize, Oh, wow, this is like, you know, this is really true for me. And yeah, it's just crazy that.
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Leah: That there's so many people that I know that just have that experience where again, they find human design and then they're, they start to realize, okay, wow, all of these decisions that I've made, I've just been, you know, out of alignment with my, my gut feelings or whatever your authority is. And, you know, it's so interesting in your chart too, as we were talking about earlier is just the fact that you have such a defined head and a defined mind.
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Leah: And so I, when I look at a chart like yours, I always see that. People who have that really strong head and mind they will try and make decisions from that place and they get really caught up in the logic and they have a really hard time being connected to that sacred response and so what a gift that you found human design because probably allowed you and you know more ways than just what you've described being able to.
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Leah: Okay you know i am someone who has a strong mind i am logical and that's such a gift of mine but that's not the place that i'm designed to make decisions and i meant to respond to things and and then now you're witnessing okay when has this when is this shown up right before you know you even found like it was like the catalyst for everything.
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Leah: Truly, and when I said, like, my story is so similar, I know you know a little bit about my story. I know we've talked about it before, but just, I was the same way. It was like, I was shutting down this, you know, I always say voice in my head, but it's not my voice. It was my gut. I was shutting it down. I constantly was feeling like I had stomach aches or,, just something was off and it just, everything felt very restrictive.
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Leah: And the more I shut it down, the more that manifested into something greater, whether that for me, it was anxiety, depression, panic disorder. And for you, it was, you know, a really intense illness. And,, to those of you listening, that's really important to remember because human design is about energetics.
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Leah: And so energetics, when we dive into that world, we learn a lot about how we work with our energy. It allows us to experience a lot more lightness and, and avoid, you know, pretty hard things that can manifest into even greater things like disease and illness and things like that. So very cool. And I, I'm so happy that you shared all of those details.
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Leah: I didn't know how deep you were going to go and I'm glad you went there, which really makes sense because, you know, so Kaylee is doing so much with business. So I would love to hear now about. You know where you're going with human design and your experience with sharing it because Haley's account grew really kind of at the same time that mine did just sharing about the system and and then it it's grown into something else and now has evolved into really the sort of business angle so tell us a little bit about.
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Leah: and your community and just everything that you were up to or have been up to. And then now what you're like kind of transitioning into what you're currently doing.
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Kalei: So what is currently of interest to me is the practical, Implications of human design in a work context, because as we and I have both shared stories around having careers that objectively looked good on paper, they paid really well, but we're not a utilization of our true gifts and talents and as sacral beings, and 70 percent of the population, and.
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Kalei: Being a sacral being, you, we are designed to be engaged with work that we love, and when we are, that energy produces higher quality energy that gets spread across the rest of the planet. Absolutely, the angle that I felt called to take after spending I would say the first 18 months of my business really just focus on educating my community on human design, approaching it as a tool of self discovery, a tool of self understanding, which it is, and then going through this sort of healing process of the breakup with the old paradigm of business and realizing that, hey, I have actually developed this really strong business acumen, this Really strong financial sense that can be very valuable for the clients that I'm already serving and helping people begin to relate to this system in terms of the applications and the implications of it in their work specifically.
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Kalei: So I have studied with the international school of human design in their business arm, which If your listeners are curious, there is a business component of human design that's specifically referred to as BG5. And what I'm interested in now is helping people get into the right Roles and for entrepreneurs and business owners to be setting up their business ecosystem, which includes their business plan, their business model, their daily, weekly and monthly schedule, the offers that they develop.
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Kalei: And maintain for whatever length of time in the way that they attract people into their community, like their marketing and their sales efforts, ensuring that all of those different facets of business are congruent with their design mechanics, because I believe that people who are living in alignment with their design and designing their businesses around that are going to attract the people that they're meant to serve.
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Kalei: And they're gonna be able to serve in ways that feel sustainable. And that sustainability component is really important to me. And so that's where my work is right now. , I am in the process of. Working with my team on diversifying our marketing channels. And I'm not sure when this episode will go live exactly.
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Kalei: Leah and I were talking a little bit about that offline, but as the day of recording, I'm in the process of starting to grow on YouTube. And I was sharing with Leah that the process of creating on that platform right now is. Really fulfilling me. It's really satisfying me. And as generator, I need to follow that.
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Kalei: And so I am investing a lot of time and energy in creating resources for people on that platform to be able to understand human design, but also be thinking about what are the practical implications. Based off of what's happening and unfolding in real time. So an example of that would be recording a YouTube video this week that's speaking specifically to how to utilize your energy type to gain a competitive edge during a downturn in the economy.
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Kalei: And that kind of stuff excites me. It energizes me. And so I'm just following that and I'm really grateful to have. A team that has been supportive with the creative vision that has been unfolding for me through expanded flow. And I think. One thing that I want to share with your listeners, especially because there's such a large percentage of our population that is either a generator or manifesting generator is like, there's so much power in the clarity of your next step.
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Kalei: And there's also so much power in giving yourself permission to not know. Beyond the next step and being able to apply that to business as we're moving into the new paradigm and as we're soon going to be experiencing the activation of the channel 3420 is I think a really powerful way to be in relationship with your work in your business.
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Kalei: So I offer that to your community and I'll pause there. Oh, my gosh.
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Leah: Yeah. So much goodness. And there's so much to be said. And those of you listening, I haven't heard a ton about the new paradigm stuff, but I promise there's a lot coming., but basically the idea is that in 2027, we are going to be having a massive shift into a new paradigm.
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Leah: And basically the shift has already been unfolding. I mean, 2020 was kind of the start of it. And we're now witnessing systems and structures really start to fall apart. And there's going to be a mutation of the solar plexus that's taking place, which is the emotional center, as I call it. And there's, there's a lot to be said about what's happening.
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Leah:, AI is made of an emergence, which I know Kaylee, I've seen you share quite a bit about, and we're just starting to see lots of things happen. Lots of things crumble, lots of new things being built. And as of 2027, we're going to be in a big shift. And, you know, projectors and six twos are going to have a really strong place in this new paradigm.
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Leah: But also, I mean, that doesn't mean that, you know, if you're not a six to or if you're not a projector that something's wrong with you, it just means that we all are going to be needing to embrace what makes us individual and makes us special. And so human design is going to have a huge role in this. And And we hear the word new paradigm outside of human design, new age, things like that, like the astrology that happened earlier this year, where we moved into the age of Aquarius, there's just big things going on.
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Leah: And it's really cool to kind of sit back and witness. And that's really all I ever tell people to do when I talk about new paradigm. And so, Haley, I'd love to hear your take on new paradigm. And what that looks like for business and all of the things that are kind of unfolding right now and where you kind of see things going.
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Kalei: Yeah, as I know that, you know, we could probably geek out on this for four hours. Oh, yeah. Offer a insight or two in this podcast. And then I encourage your listeners. If you want to subscribe to my newsletter, I do a monthly podcast style training on the new paradigm of business. And I will be responding every month to current events that are taking place.
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Kalei: What that means from a human design lens. So that's free for. Them to engage with and we can link that for them. And so what I'll share in our conversation today is an overarching theme of the old paradigm of business is. That we were living through for the past 400 plus years, we were living through a time where there was definition in the defined ego or the defined will center and the defined emotional center.
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Kalei: And the will center is a center that has high implications and considerations in the context of work, because it's the. The will of I will do this in exchange for this and in the old paradigm, we basically set up a lot of much of our global economy around this sort of tribal bargain structure and the channel that was defined or has been defined through the previous Transcribed Paradigm and maybe we'll just share with your listeners who are curious, but the incarnation cross that we're referring to right now is the cross of planning and it includes the activation of gate 40 and gate 37.
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Kalei: That's that creating that definition. I was referring to and I'm sorry. What was established through that energy was this bargain agreement that I will trade my resources in exchange for other resources. And you can think about this in a work context. In just even thinking about a business, it could be a small business.
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Kalei: It could be a large business. Maybe we'll think about a big business in this context, like an Amazon. Amazon employs their employees through a employment agreement, and that employee is agreeing to exchange their time and energy in exchange for resources in the form of health benefits. Income things of that nature and what we're shifting away from is an economy that relies upon that bargain that agreement to be struck and in 2027 and beyond.
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Kalei: And as Leah's mentioned. We're already starting to feel the ripples of it from 2020 and forward is that there's less reliance on that system infrastructure, because what the individual is waking up to and realizing and there's sort of this mass awakening occurring is that those agreements that were set up through Tribal consciousness aren't really set up to support people in a sense of equity in those agreements, feeling like that it's a win win for both parties.
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Kalei: And so that coincides with the shift that's occurring where we're actually going to be moving into the cross of the sleeping Phoenix, which is going to be activating a channel. That's part of our, integration in individual circuitry group, and it's going to have Basically the manifesting generator channel.
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Leah: Basically, yeah. If you're a manifesting generator, it's going to feel good.
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Kalei: So, we're moving into this time period where we care less about, , this, Bargain infrastructure and more about what satisfies me as an individual, how do I exercise my energy and derive strength from the way that I express and move in the world.
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Kalei: And in that incarnation cross of the sleeping Phoenix, we're going to be activating gate 55, which is about. Us becoming resource and experiencing abundance through our relationship with source consciousness with spirit, with God, with universe, whatever that term is for your listeners. And so what is occurring right now is basically this sort of.
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Kalei: Erosion of the infrastructure that was set up and did work for a period of time. You know, we need to give credit to the fact that it did allow us to be able to have, , the societies and global infrastructure that we do have. But now we're moving into we're evolving into a place where there is not going to be that systems reliance anymore.
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Kalei: And so human design as Leah and I can both attest to is probably one of the most powerful tools for you to help navigate this time period that we're moving through, because you're The way that you are going to be making money and experiencing prosperity and abundance in your life is literally through your process of individual expression, through your individuation process.
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Kalei: And we're seeing that start to play out already as we're moving into this, what is now being referred to as the creator economy. And we're seeing People blow up on Tik TOK overnight or on Instagram and being able to become millionaires and under a year, like we're seeing people become resourced and access this monetary abundance through being themselves.
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Kalei: And that's really the theme that we're moving into. And so, so beautiful too. I love it. Yeah, I'm just grateful that your listeners are here listening to this conversation with us. And I hope that you feel empowered that you are focusing on the right things for yourself right now that you learning about yourself through the lens of human design is one of the best courses of action that you can take.
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Kalei: And it's going to provide an anchor point for you as we continue to move forward over the next few years.
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Leah: Yeah. And you know, this is something that is, has been sort of predicted by human design. And I do like to preface by saying human design isn't super, like, it's not predictive like astrology is where we can't look at, okay, in the month of May, like these things are going to happen.
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Leah: This is more of a, Hey, there's a shift that's happening and what are the themes that are tied to these shifts, to these incarnation crosses, to these channels. It's really beautiful to be involved in human design and something that I've, you know, witnessed not only in this place as a reader, but also witnessing as someone who's doing energy work as those of you that, you know, listen to every episode, I'm, I'm developing my psychic mediumship skills.
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Leah: And what I like to add to just this new paradigm conversation is that that's going to be really normal coming up here. If you think that that's woo woo or crazy or human design is crazy or astrology is crazy or any of these. You know, sort of spiritual systems. I want you to buckle up because moving into the next paradigm.
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Leah: They're going to be very intelligent children. They're going to be people that are born with gifts. I mean, beyond what you can even imagine. And we're going to be so tapped in telepathically., we're going to start to see this emergence of people get really in touch with. Again, their individuality, but also their spirituality.
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Leah: And I think, like you said, we're going to get really in touch with what source. Why are we here? What makes me special? And so as we're seeing this emergence of AI take place, it's really cool. I think AI has a really great place. Like I don't want to dog on it because I think it's amazing, but also it's.
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Leah: Sort of this like weeding out mechanism to start to see, okay, who is leaning on that? And who's also leaning on and then who's leading on just being themselves. And I don't know if you've noticed this too, Kaylee, I'm sure you have, but you mentioned TikTok. I love TikTok. And I've noticed quite a bit on there that the people that are doing things that are different.
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Leah: And the, and even like, You can tell when someone is staging something. Like the, the era of like the influencer is, it's not over by any means, but it's less about being an influencer. And it's more about being a creator now where it's like, I don't want someone to influence me. Like the fakeness of things is so evident more than ever.
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Leah: And so it's really an opportunity to go, okay, I don't have to do that. Now I can step into being me, being individual, being creative, being connected to whatever it is that made me this way. And just by simply doing that, I quite literally create the life of my dreams. I quite literally manifest millions of dollars in a year.
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Leah: And. So much more. So I am so excited for it. I mean, like this is like, yeah, this is my favorite conversation ever. Tell us a little bit about with the new paradigm. I'd love to hear from you, like maybe some tangible tips from like old paradigm to new paradigm of like, you know, what are, how does one embrace the new paradigm or how does one embrace it?
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Leah: Move away from the old paradigm because if you're listening and you're like, Oh my gosh, like I do those things or I, you know, no worries. We all do old paradigm things still. I still do. And it's a, it's a deconditioning process for myself. And I think we're all going to be shifted into it either abruptly or slowly.
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Leah: And so 2023, we have, you know, beautiful few years to kind of make that transition, but. So I'd love to hear Kalei some tips on just like, you know, what's old paradigm, what's new paradigm and how to move between, I guess, aligning to what's going to be more
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Kalei: successful. So practically you can think about old paradigm is sort of subjugating your needs and desires to that of the family, to that of the group, because of that tribal element is that like the family's needs come before my own.
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Kalei: And I think around the time of 2020, there was sort of this collective realization that like, I can't continue to self sacrifice like I actually need to have a healthy relationship with rest and with people. Being able to rejuvenate and restore and kitty
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Leah: next to is making me giggle those you've got you guys listening can't see but her cat just came over and it's just being so dang cute.
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Leah: I have a cat fever right now. By the way, I looked at kittens yesterday for like a few hours. So anyway, I've gone I don't cut you off for that.
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Kalei: Blue loves to be the center of attention. Have an undefined three vote. So, Where the theme of the last few hundred years has really been being a good family member, being a good team member, being a healthy contributor to the group, to society.
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Kalei: Now it's going to be servicing your expression and clarifying why you chose to come here and how the uniqueness of your gifts and talents translate to a use case or a way to support and help other people. It's a little bit of like an individual focus, but the paradox of it is actually through you focusing on your individuality.
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Kalei: You're supporting the collective in a much more effective manner. When I think of, , the old paradigm, I think of it a little bit. As like existing within a vacuum and having sort of peripheral awareness that, like, there's other states, there's other countries, there's things going on elsewhere, but, like, I'm only really focused on making sure that me and my family have what we need and, like, supporting the needs of that and.
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Kalei: This individual empowerment and self empowerment is going to be critical in the new paradigm. From a practical standpoint, you need to be able to actually have a healthy neck regulated nervous system because the theme of the new paradigm is going to be present moment awareness in the only way that you're able to.
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Kalei: Express and take action based off of awareness that comes in in the now is through you having a regulated nervous system that supports you from a biological standpoint to actually be present, right? And so, whatever those tools or modalities are, I know that, like, we've just gone through this huge wave of, like, self development and all of these, like, beautiful modalities, but, like, it's Knowing that they need to continue to be an integrative part of your life, like breath work is not a fad, like if breath work is the most effective tool that helps you regulate your nervous system, like it needs to continue to stay a part of your life.
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Kalei: And I think that people need to be also willing to develop greater levels of intimacy in their relationships because we're going to be receiving the activation of gate 59. We're already starting to see like, These themes play out where, like, the marriage construct is, like, changing and, like, the health and the longevity of relationships through the construct of marriage is changing and people are realizing that, like, I need to be able to be more transparent and more authentic in my relationships with other people and that I can't mask that part of myself because I am, again, Like, More concerned with ensuring that the waters aren't the boat isn't rocked within the family dynamic within the relational dynamic.
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Kalei: It's actually being willing to be truthful and. Authentic through this greater vulnerability through this greater intimacy in your relationships, and I'm excited for that component of like where we're going. I think we're already starting to see it with, , people starting to explore different ways of being in relationship with one another, like polyamory.
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Kalei: , just non traditional relationships, non hetero relationships. We're going to continue to see those themes like evolve and move into a way that just supports the individual and being the fullest embodiment of their truth in the now. And I would also offer like a practical Maybe I would refer to it as just like a philosophy of living your life over the next few years is practicing progressive detachment from the way that things have been in the past, because we are seeing so much collective change happen.
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Kalei: And it's going to continue to happen. And so the more that we're able to just enjoy the ride and, and be detached and not need to cling to people, situations, experiences, , and just really expand your relationship with flow and being in that greater current, that greater flow, , that's what I see.
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Kalei: There's a lot of potential. And as Leah mentioned as well, like reality is unfolding in real time. So we are co creating how this shift in global consciousness actually takes root and expresses itself in material form because of how energetics work. That anything can Express itself from a shadow state of being a shadow frequency or a higher expression, a higher state of consciousness.
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Kalei: And so that's something for people to, I think, also take some. Relief and a sense of support from is that, like, if you are doing the work to, like, integrate your shadow and to become a more conscious evolved aware person like you are going to be well resourced as we continue to move into the new paradigm because.
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Kalei: We need these, we need more people in higher states of consciousness to shape reality in the direction that we want it to go.
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Leah: So good. So good. And all of it. It's so interesting. So I was just having a conversation this weekend with one of our friends. So I'm going to be 28 in a few months. And one of our friends actually, like shortly after this podcast probably will come out.
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Leah:, but we were talking about relationships and we were talking about some of our friends that are getting married and. And, , some of our friends that have gotten married and now we're, you know, it's like, oh, I don't know about that because basically how the conversation started was, we were talking about someone we knew that was getting married and we're like, it's interesting cause I, I just don't see that one lasting.
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Leah: And it's interesting to witness people, you know, merge and get married and, and kind of think to yourself, like, I don't know, I just don't feel like that one's right. And my friend was saying, she's like, oh, my, my hairdresser who was like 35, she's like. You know, my hairdresser was saying it's now she's at the phase where everyone's kind of going through divorces and whatever.
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Leah: And, and so she's like, that's what's going to happen to, you know, people that got married and like when they were 24, 25, and if you got married at that age and you're listening, like, obviously this doesn't apply to everyone, but generalization speaking. But it's interesting why I'm bringing this up is because we were talking about new paradigm and gate 59.
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Leah: I, cause, and this is what I shared with them. I, I shared that. I actually think that there will be less of. Divorce because I think that people who decide to get married will be more, , they'll be more inclined to make a commitment that is like extremely serious. And I was and I was wanting to start to go into this human design angle, but.
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Leah: You know, I preface with depending on the people I'm talking to, just because some people don't want to get down that rabbit hole with me and then they can listen to my podcast if they want to. So just on the note of relationships, I think it's going to be really interesting to witness that in the new paradigm to see how people are.
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Leah: I guess merging or connecting because I think that we're going to find that I don't know. It'll be interesting to see if people are either going to be less connected to others or if they're going to be more connected because they're looking for someone that really like is aligned to their values and less about what we talked about the family and doing things just because, you know, my parents think they're a great person or this person is the same religion that.
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Leah: You know, my parents want me to marry and it's kind of like the Romeo and Juliet, right? Like Romeo and Juliet are going to be together in the new paradigm versus like the old paradigm would be like they couldn't, right? So because of their families. And so it's like, you're kind of witnessing all these things happen.
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Leah: So just wanted to add that. Cause I just, it's been on the top of my mind as I'm thinking about what's going to be. Sort of shifting and I think that it's going to be really cool. The work that you're doing. I know I'm going to end up signing up to work with you because I want to get your support. And you know, I do human design, but here's the thing.
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Leah: We all have our sort of angles and human design and our interests and what we get really deep with in our way that we deliver that to people. And I am so excited to work with you. And whatever capacity on figuring out, you know, like, what are the things in my business that aren't supportive? Because I think where we're at, and I'm seeing a lot of people go through this shift right now, including myself is like, we've got lots of platforms to connect with people.
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Leah: You mentioned you're getting on YouTube and I mentioned TikTok I've dabbled. And, you know, I'm constantly in this phase of like, okay, like. I like, I'll be on Pinterest randomly doing something. I'm like, I need to be like on Pinterest and then like I'll be on YouTube for a moment. I'm like, I need to do all this stuff on YouTube or like TikTok.
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Leah: And I'm like, why am I not doing this? And so I'm in that like phase of, you know, I need to be everywhere and I need to be killing myself to show up in all these places when I'm not. You know, quite literally, the amount of times that I've woken up to take a video of myself to do something and my sacral says, no, is, you know, it's astronomical and we're constantly trying to work with these algorithms and things.
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Leah: And so I feel like the work that you're doing is basically giving people permission and human design does this in general, but says, you don't have to be everywhere. You don't have to hustle. You don't have to kill yourself. You have to do you and what works for you. If you want to become, you know, a millionaire, which it's not even about like making money, but just putting that out there is like, if you want to become a millionaire, how that happens is you have to be the best version of you.
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Leah: And you have to do that so authentically and so truly. So if you don't like doing TikToks, then you're not going to thrive on TikTok when you force it. Now, I think it's fun to experiment and like try it out and see if maybe something clicks, but If it's not clicking for you, that's okay. There might be something new.
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Leah: And I think the other thing in the new paradigm is like, we're going to watch things shift so fast as I mean, it already does shift so fast is like, even if you are all of a sudden creating this giant strategy on YouTube like YouTube might be wiped under our feet in like a few months because AI or something's going to come in and blow it up or the next new thing.
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Leah: So with that, Haley, I'd love to hear a little bit about how you support people through these transitions.
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Kalei: Yeah, great question. So because pull your listeners into this, like whether you already are a business owner or identify as an entrepreneur or you're self employed or you're working in a corporate environment or some other more traditional job right now, What we're seeing is the increasing importance of having a personal brand, right?
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Kalei: Like even people who just use social media for personal expression are in some way a personal brand, right?
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Leah: All of us are, and all of us are influencers too, I always say that. We all influence each
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Kalei: other. Yeah, and so there's increasing importance on the establishment of a personal brand. As social media becomes.
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Kalei: Even more integral to our economy. There's changes in platforms and things launching. It seems like every couple of months, like at the time of recording, we were about 10 days out from the threads launch. And so I want your listeners to be thinking about whether you identify as. An entrepreneur, a business owner, a content creator.
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Kalei: Like you do have a personal brand and that personal brand is on social media in some capacity.
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Leah: Like, and I also want to clarify, because a lot of people, they hear brand and they think my logo, my font and my colors, that's not what we're talking about here.
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Kalei: No, we're just talking about your presence, your energy, literally your energy, your voice.
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Kalei: It could be your voice. It could be your writing. It, it, it just matters that it's you and that it's your energy and that it's an authentic representation of you. And what I offer to the people that I work with. When you are wanting to clarify your personal brand, or you've decided that you're going into business for yourself, and you're going to start growing some sort of social media presence, because you do need to have some sort of marketing distribution so that you're able to get your offers and your services into the world.
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Kalei: So people can find you. So people can find you and. Become a part of your community and connect with your work and purchase things from you. So as Leah mentioned, like, you can create an account on like eight different platforms at this point. And I imagine by the time that we release this, there's probably going to be one or two other new platforms because that's also part of the energetics of the new paradigm is there's this decentralization happening as we're moving away from reliance on these.
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Kalei: Common systems and infrastructure that we used to because we're seeing decentralization. That's why we're seeing like Facebook was able to command a large market share for a long period of time. And then that's been sort of like, I feel like the, the life of it has been getting cut in half and getting cut in half and getting cut in half as like all of these new platforms are, , launching into the world.
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Kalei: And so for, for creators, for business owners, I can, I definitely want to validate that it is very normal to feel overwhelmed and not sure, like, do I need to be on eight platforms at once? Where do I need to be? What I would offer to you is to start with one platform and master one platform first, because The process of mastering a social media platform in terms of understanding how your personal brand, , is received by your ideal customer, by the people that you hope to impact, you're going to have an economy of scale.
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Kalei: And what I mean by that is you're going to gain insights through that process that are going to then translate into you launching onto a different platform. Yes, you are going to still need to learn the ins and outs of a different platform, but you've sort of mastered the basics that you need that you're going to need to master, regardless of which platform you use.
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Kalei: And so that's why I offer to your audience that you start with mastering one platform. And usually when I give it. That advice to people, I can see it in their bodies, that sort of relief, this sort of sigh of relief of like, okay, so I don't need to be in four places at once. And the other thing that I'll mention is that it's going to be a lot more effective for you to be able to be on more platforms and widening, , the.
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Kalei: Diversity of your marketing and distribution is once you have a team that you're able to hire and back and support you so that you're able to train them on how you want to be leveraging these platforms and. For most people who are just getting started, they don't have the financial resources to invest in a team.
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Kalei: And so for the person that's just getting started, start with mastering one platform, trust that the skills that you develop and the way that you understand your brand voice, your brand presence. The offers that you, , are using to monetize your services and your gifts in the world and the community feedback that you're receiving from the audience base that you're growing is going to help inform what the next platform is and then what the next platform is.
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Kalei: If you had asked me a year ago, if I saw myself having a successful YouTube presence, I would say no way. But I allowed the process to unfold organically. And now it's the platform that I'm the most excited to create for a year ago, it was Instagram. And so allowing that fluidity and flow to the process of growing a business is also just going to be a really effective philosophy to have because of how the current economy looks and.
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Kalei: All of the things that we've been talking about throughout this entire podcast episode of. The energetics of the new paradigm, and it's an exciting time, and I encourage your listeners to lean into the excitement of that and lean into what personally interests you, what personally excites you and trusting that trusting the power of your alignment.
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Kalei: And letting that be the guiding force, the guiding direction for your business endeavors. Oh, so powerful.
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Leah: So good to just all the little tips that you have there. And I know the sigh of relief that you receive in your sessions is I know people listening are also experiencing a sigh of relief because a lot of times that's what prevents people from getting started is like, you know, all the places they supposedly have to be.
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Leah: And again, find what works for you, whether you like to tweet or you like. Threads if you like to write so maybe it's newsletters or blogs or maybe you like video. Maybe it's long form video Maybe it's short form video. Maybe you're like me and really just like carousel posts on Instagram and stories So, you know, you'll find your kind of place in the world and then you'll find it Maybe it'll shift within a few months or a year And that's what's beautiful about what's happening is that we're allowed to work with these shifts and we can trust that us being individuals and being so authentic to what makes us unique, that the right places will support us the right people will find us, and we don't have to worry about algorithms and things like that.
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Leah: So Haley, thank you so much for sharing all of your amazing wisdom on new paradigm. I learned even. So much from you as someone who knows so much about human design. Just hearing things in a different way and hearing it from your voice. It really did impact me. So thank you. And, , I'd love to now just hear, you know, what are ways that people listening can work with you.
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Leah: I know this is going to come out a few months after we're Recording, but what are some of the kind of like foundational things that you do right now? And I'll have everything linked below.
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Kalei: First, I want to say thank you for the opportunity to chat with you and connect with your audience with your community as a line for I really cannot.
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Kalei: Emphasize how much that feels like an honor and a gift, and I do feel that as we continue to grow and evolve, that finding like-minded community, finding that people that you really connect with on that soul level. And making the time to invest in the health and the longevity of those relationships is so essential and is going to support you in navigating these changes that we have been discussing over the course of this episode.
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Kalei: And I'm really grateful that Leah is somebody that I can truly call a friend and. As somebody who has been identified as an entrepreneur for a couple years, which is really peanuts in terms of how long many people end up identifying with that title over the course of their lives, talking 30, 40, 50 years.
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Kalei: And so to be able to find Leah early in my entrepreneurial journey and to be able to develop the relationship and the closeness that we have is truly a gift. And I hope that your listeners are able to find people through your community, people who love human design that. And support you in whatever your career endeavors are, but I think that it's really important as we navigate the next few years in finding your people and as far as ways for your community to connect with me, I would offer them to we mentioned it a little bit earlier, but to subscribe to my newsletter, because Bye.
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Kalei: As a 2/4 profile, I love to go deep and the best and most effective way for me to go deepest through longer form content. And so you can access a free monthly newsletter from me where I share some of my writing insights. And then that podcast that I mentioned earlier, which is anywhere from a 20 to 30 minute free human design training, that's speaking into the implications and the considerations that you can be making right now for yourself in the context of new paradigm business.
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Kalei: And I will always be responding based off of what's unfolding in real time. So at the time of recording, for example. We're going to be having another episode where I'm actually going to be talking through the human design charts of Instagram as a platform and threads as a platform and comparing and contrasting.
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Kalei: And so people can start to have a sense of how they can have a more informed relationship with these social media platforms through understanding their design and. How the launch of new platforms such as threads is giving insight into the changes in global consciousness that are occurring right now.
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Kalei: So, really excited for that. , and then connect with me on Instagram, Expanded Flow, and then my YouTube is also Expanded Flow. I imagine by the time this episode goes live that there's going to be dozens of human design educational resources for you there. , so if you like the way that I am in relationship with this system, then I think you'll receive a lot of value from YouTube.
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Kalei: And that's what I have for your audience today. Oh my gosh.
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Leah: It's so exciting and so good. It's been just amazing having you here. And I know I could talk to you forever because guys, we do these calls like once a month, , with our friends and we end up going like three hours into conversations half the time, because we just can't stop talking about human design and not even human design and business and just.
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Leah: And just all the things and Hailey and I coming up i mean this will be in the past when the podcast comes out we're going to an event together and i don't know just all the good things and what you said about our relationship was so sweet and I echo everything you share because what a gift to know you and also you know I'm peanuts into my journey as well into entrepreneurship and so i am.
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Leah: Beyond blessed to know you because of just the angle that you take and all the goodness that you carry on all this information and just how transformative that is for my own business and my own life. So. Thank you for taking the time to come on here and sharing your amazing wisdom. And I can't wait to have my audience now know you and work with you and all the things.
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Leah: So thank you
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Kalei: Thank you.
